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Rachel Kolisi Says She Will Keep Surname, Citing Children’s Stability

She says the choice protects her children’s sense of stability.

Overview

  • A viral clip from her Falling Forward book and film tour shows Rachel Kolisi telling a crowd she will keep the Kolisi surname for now.
  • She said the decision follows two turbulent years for her children that included five moves, three school changes, and two overseas relocations.
  • She recounted correcting a shopper who called her “Siya Kolisi’s wife” and introducing herself as Rachel to assert her own identity.
  • She added that sharing a surname with her “brown” children helps reduce extra questioning from airport staff when they travel together.
  • The video drew online criticism, and two rugby spouses, Marise Pollard and Layla Kolbe, signaled support by liking the post and engaging with her book.